Broadening Your Horizons
by Tamara Jacobs
Life is busy, plain and simple. You might be someone who lives a fabulous existence, in a great city, with wonderful friends and still you don’t always get to enjoy it all. When 50 hours of your week are spent at work and 50 asleep, you’re only left with 68 hours for yourself. And even those are reduced by things like getting ready for work, commuting and going to the gym. Which leaves roughly 5 hours (sorry for all the math!) per day to kick back and unwind. For most people that time will be spent with their nearest and dearest or doing an activity that they know and love. While this is completely reasonable, it sometimes feels like a shame to not spend more time meeting new people, trying new things and really take advantage of what’s at your disposal.
But entering the world of the unfamiliar is not just about setting the time aside to do it. It’s about having the willingness and courage to try new things. Here are a few scenarios to help exemplify my point:
1. THE ASPIRING WRITER:
Current predicament: Loves to write, doesn’t have enough time to do it, no one to share it with and, like any artist, fears anticipated reactions.
Desire: To meet other writers with whom he/she can openly share work and improve.
Must be willing to: Join a free workshop in the city, take a few classes.
Must have courage to: Start a blog or self-publish in some way and brave the idea of opening up and sharing their work on a public platform.
2. THE HOPELESSLY SINGLE PERSON:
Current predicament: Single and not meeting the right people. Social but typically with an insular group of friends.
Desire: To meet new people but reluctant to step too far outside of comfort zone.
Must be willing to: Accept being fixed up by friends, join online dating sites and social groups where there’s the potential to expand their social circle.
Must have courage to: Actually put themselves out there and take a chance on something new- bearing in mind that it’s only one way to meet people and that their other approaches will still be relevant and necessary.
3. THE JOB SEEKER:
Current predicament: Working at a job that’s comfortable but under stimulating.
Desire: To use their brain and energy in a creative and stimulating environment.
Must be willing to: Network, use contacts, put themselves out there- ie. circulate CV, create a bit of an online presence, do something bold and brave (depending on the specific job).
Must have courage to: Go above and beyond, differentiate themselves in some way, apply for their dream jobs.
So you see there is a trend here, which is that it is fine to have the desire, but there needs to be a willingness as well. And with that willingness, the courage to take action. Because it’s the willingness and courage that separates those who achieve what they want in their lives from those who just dream about achieving it.